I try to keep my blog purely technical but today I will make an exception.
It is good to help each other. It is not good to take extreme steps to help.
Sometimes the other side may say they want your help but it is their actions that determine if you can help them or not. If they are not paying attention or they have other things in mind trying too hard to help will backfire. It is just a waste of time and exhausting for both parties. Sometimes you have to give up and let others problems be others problems. Today is one such time for me.